The People You Can’t Figure Out (Consistency)
Trust allows us to stop paying attention. Inconsistency makes us start again.
Your Resume Doesn’t Get a Vote (Competence)
Why do brilliant people get overlooked, incompetent people get promoted, and experienced companies lose to newcomers? The answer reveals an uncomfortable truth about who gets to decide whether you’re good at something.
Where Do You Draw the Line? (Character)
A warning for decent people working in customer experience, data, and AI. Not about what technology might do to their customers, but what it might do to them.
Why Trust Is More Complicated Than You Think
We talk about trust as though we know what it is.
Mostly, we know what it feels like when it disappears.
Who Are You Protecting?
Someone put something they value in your hands today. Do you know what it is?
The Buffalo Doesn’t Love the Bird
Every relationship you have is answering the same question. A small African bird explains which one.
Familiar Strangers
There are people in my life I’ve never met.
It took me a while to realize they were in my life at all.
Help Wanted (Not)
I heard someone confidently explaining how another perfectly capable adult should live.
What Did You Make Today?
There is a way to quiet your nervous system and replace that persistent feeling that the world is happening faster than you can keep up.
It’s so ordinary we rarely notice it anymore. And yet, as children, we did it every day.
Outposts: The Places We Never Planned To Stay
We spend an extraordinary amount of time deciding where we’re going and almost none deciding where we’ll stop.
Your Brand Has a Courage Problem
It doesn’t take much for someone to decide who you are. That’s both the danger...and the opportunity.
Who Changed You?
We all carry around the name of someone who changed us. Have you ever wondered who carries yours?
“Get That Giraffe Off The Court!”
Some of the most important words in our lives are also the ones we examine the least.
Some Things Never Change
We have a habit of becoming fascinated by what’s new.
Sometimes that makes us forget what actually matters.
Congratulations, You’re Forgettable
If you follow the crowd, read this. If you avoid the crowd, read this. Sooner or later, everyone has to decide what they’re unwilling to become.
Who is all this for?
Not long ago, someone asked if my silence over the past several months meant something was wrong. I told them yes. This essay is the result.
The Moment We Stopped Learning
Our discomfort with ignorance begins early. Embracing not knowing may be the most important skill for parents, educators, and leaders in a rapidly changing world.
Learning to Stand on Level Ground
The world isn’t collapsing. It’s reshaping itself. The real question is whether those who once benefited most from the old order are willing to evolve with the new one.
The Companions We Take For Granted
In a world obsessed with growing faster and standing out, there’s wisdom in the things that grow slowly, stay rooted, and hold their place.